Introverts like to socialise too

Introverts like to socialise too! but with social gatherings, parties and “networking” events geared toward outspokenness it's easy to feel out of place, anxious and sometimes inadequate. I did my best to fit in with social norms, but it’s always been tough, however, there IS another way.

I created a group for those who are seeking to take the leap and try and connect with people in real life. I’ve been running a regular event in Bristol - UK, and wanted to expand it to a wider audience as it may help other introverts looking for the same.

A bit of history: A few years ago, after attending social event after event, it was hard to escape the feeling that the person who shouts loudest is the only one heard, I was fed up going home feeling despondent, then I stumbled across an introvert meetup.. hmm interesting!

I had a fascinating experience. I met people who had similar thoughts and feelings, it was liberating. I left feeling like hey, there are others who feel like me and I’m not the only one.This absolutely needed to happen more!

I started running events through meetup with everything built around making the environment welcoming whilst flipping some traditional social cues upside down. It started small, only a handful showing up (no surprise!) sometimes, I was on my own, but hey, introvert here! playing pool by myself, not a problem! :-P ..but over the years, it has resonated hard, there are now nearly 4000 members in Bristol alone with up to 80 introverts of diverse age range (yes, a big crowd of people that don’t like socialising apparently!) plus an unusually high turnout rate +85%, compared to 30-40% for other meetups. (Shows introvert loyalty and commitment!)

I’ve now met and connected with 100s of introverts as best friends and some for business! Plus international introverts! and in my experience attendees have been the kindest, friendliest bunch of people.

For many, just turning up to their first event was a monumental achievement. I’m a big advocate of pushing movements that have the potential to enrich people's lives.

The internet has given us digital connectivity, the downside is sitting behind a computer instead of real life is now a convenient option esp. for those who find meeting new people daunting.

This may be enough for some but can it replace in-person connection? I don't know, but I do know how much I benefit from meeting people and the power of connecting in person with like-minded people where you can resonate and gain support when necessary.

I've made some great life-long friends and have witnessed others do the same with new friendships spawning out of these meetups week in week out, it has been a significant part of my life.

If you're interested, it resonates, or you know someone who might be interested in any way I’d be so grateful if you could join and support the cause.

Maybe one-day meetup can be global providing real-life safe places for introverts to hang out where they feel valued and respected.